
Beachy Beach April Love Note
(Originally published April 27, 2017)
I have been practicing my phrase, "Praising God in the Valley" as of late. Thankfully I believe that with challenges and mountain climbing we build strong limbs and rock solid faith or I might be tempted to leap off one of these mountains. Life has a way of stretching us, and even though it is quite uncomfortable, it is vital for our growth and frankly for our ability to help others.
I have been very tempted and even given into some slight whining and as agreed up before it is a terrible strategy for a happy and joyful life. I know that when life gets full and you think you simply can not take ONE more thing!!! NO, really SERIOUSLY not one more thing….. You just have to dig into your heart and proclaim YOUR truth. CAPS ARE NECESSARY HERE TO PROCLAIM THAT THE SECRET IS……. THE LEVEL OF GRATITUDE THAT I EMBRACE!!! THERE IS NOTHING IN LIFE THAT I CAN NOT WEATHER IF I FOCUS ON THE GRATITUDE OF WHAT I HAVE, AND MANY TIMES WE HAVE TO LOSE IT OR CHANGE OUR FOCUS TO KNOW WHAT WE HAVE!!!
I am reminded of a story that brings it home so well to me that it is always about our perspective and the ability to find the lesson inherent in a challenge. WE do have that choice. So bare with me as a share a Jewish parable.
A poor man lived with his wife and six children in a very small one-room house. They were always getting in each other's way, and there was so little space they could hardly breathe!
Finally, the man could stand it no more. He talked to his wife and asked her what to do. "Go see the rabbi," she told him, and after arguing a while, he went.
The rabbi greeted him and said, "I see something is troubling you. Whatever it is, you can tell me."
And so the poor man told the rabbi how miserable things were at home with him, his wife, and the six children all eating and living and sleeping in one room. The poor man told the rabbi, "We're even starting to yell and fight with each other. Life couldn't be worse."
The rabbi thought very deeply about the poor man's problem. Then he said, "Do exactly as I tell you and things will get better. Do you promise?"
"I promise," the poor man said.
The rabbi then asked the poor man a strange question. "Do you own any animals?"
"Yes," he said. "I have one cow, one goat, and some chickens."
"Good," the rabbi said. "When you get home, take all the animals into your house to live with you."
The poor man was astonished to hear this advice from the rabbi, but he had promised to do exactly what the rabbi said. So he went home and took all the farm animals into the tiny one-room house.
The next day the poor man ran back to see the rabbi. "What have you done to me, Rabbi?" he cried. "It's awful. I did what you told me and the animals are all over the house! Rabbi, help me!"
The rabbi listened and said calmly, "Now go home and take the chickens back outside."
The poor man did as the rabbi said, but hurried back again the next day. "The chickens are gone, but Rabbi, the goat!" he moaned. "The goat is smashing up all the furniture and eating everything in sight!"
The good rabbi said, "Go home and remove the goat and may God bless you."
So the poor man went home and took the goat outside. But he ran back again to see the rabbi, crying and wailing. "What a nightmare you have brought to my house, Rabbi! With the cow, it's like living in a stable! Can human beings live with an animal like this?"
The rabbi said sweetly, "My friend, you are right. May God bless you. Go home now and take the cow out of your house." And the poor man went quickly home and took the cow out of the house.
The next day he came running back to the rabbi again. "O Rabbi," he said with a big smile on his face, "we have such a good life now. The animals are all out of the house. The house is so quiet, and we've got room to spare! What a joy!" ( "How the Children Became Stars" by Aaron Zerah)
Thankfully I did not have to add farm animals to my already full home and full life but what I did add is more prayer, more gratitude, more honor to those who are helping, more faith, more hope, more peace. I did concentrate on what I have and how much abundance is in my life, and once I was finished naming all of that wonder, there was time for nothing else. Just the thought of seeing all of you tomorrow and being with you and laughing and celebrating our lives together makes me joyful at this moment.
So very much love!! Karen